Don't cry just dry your eye! Seriously though just remember that women are just as superficial as men. Go to the gym, get ripped, and you'll stop being a virgin nearly instantly.I'm not ripped or muscular by any stretch of the imagination but the difference in reactions I get from women when I was 30 pounds overweight to right now is ridiculous. They pay attention to what you say, they smile at you more, and in general just treat you better.I want to alert all those poor young suckers out there, like I used to be, that looks matter just as much to women as they do to men. A woman makes a snap decision as to whether she would ever be willing to sleep with your or not and it usually involves looks. Some "smarter" women know better than to just see someone for looks. Unfortunately, these "smarter" women usually are 35+ and have all sorts of baggage left from all the previous guys who used them.I'm not trying to say I'm some sort of ladies man. Hardly... I just want you, and other naive men out there, to discard all the crap information you get from other women regarding what they want. Too many women don't know what they want so it's better to just not listen to them when it comes to relationships and the like.